Many individuals become ordained Taoists, but often they struggle to truly embody humility. While they might not appear “disrespectful” in their demeanor or speech, their hearts are far from humble. They enter the lineage carrying an overflowing cup filled with their past “experience.” As a result, they cannot fully absorb the teachings from their master, resembling stubborn rocks that cannot be shaped.

So why is humility crucial for a Taoist disciple? In essence, when you ordain as a Taoist, you seek refuge, protection, and wisdom. How can you expect help if you don’t portray yourself as someone in need of it? Only by lowering yourself and emptying your heart can you allow the Tao to fill you with its wisdom.

Consider this straightforward analogy: Imagine a seasoned Karate martial artist who decides to learn Chinese Kung Fu. On the first day, the Kung Fu master informs him that his fist technique is incorrect, his stance needs adjustment, and his body is too stiff. The Karate practitioner becomes defensive, feeling that his years of experience and achievements in Karate are being undermined. But pause and think—nobody forced him to learn Kung Fu. The master is simply guiding him to adapt to the techniques relevant to this specific martial art sect.

The master’s critiques are not a disavowal of his Karate skills; rather, they’re based on the foundational principles of this Kung Fu style. If the disciple wants to master this art form, he must be willing to adapt and grow. Unfortunately, inflated ego prevents many from accepting such constructive criticism. They leave, feeling disrespected, only to later discover that the master treats all disciples the same way: with tough love aimed at sculpting them into skillful practitioners.

This stern, hands-on approach is, in fact, a manifestation of the master’s love and care. The more a master corrects and guides you, the more invested they are in your growth. If they don’t even bother to interact with you, it’s a clear sign that they have given up on your ability to grow.

Eventually, our hypothetical Karate artist returns to his Kung Fu classes, but this time, the master is indifferent toward him. While he continues to rigorously instruct other students, he merely offers perfunctory compliments to the returning disciple. It is only then that the Karate practitioner realizes the weight of his earlier arrogance. He has lost his position in his master’s heart and must now earn it back.

Remember, when your master corrects you, it’s because they have faith in your potential and are invested in your growth. If they start telling you that you’re doing fine and require no further improvement, it’s a sign they have let you go. They grant you the “freedom” you thought you wanted, recognizing that you are not yet ready to be a true disciple.

Begin your journey by ordaining through our website and learn Saam Law Taoist magic from the comfort of your home. If you’d prefer to start with a foundational text, consider reading “My First Taoism Book” or “36 Pearls of Wisdom.” You will not be disappointed!